General Discussion Revealing clothes

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I am a lesbian, and I have had girlfriends in the past that didn't mind me showing off my figure, and I have had girlfriends that did mind, and didn't want to show me off, but keep me all to themselves instead. I think that there is an insecurity in a person that does not want their partner to dress how they actually want to dress, if that dressing style happens to be a little less modest.
 
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I need to say that I love watching women with revealing clothes, I think it makes the day look better! :)

But not my wife no, I want her with lots of clothing on the streets because she is MINE! :rolleyes:
 
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I am a lesbian, and I have had girlfriends in the past that didn't mind me showing off my figure, and I have had girlfriends that did mind, and didn't want to show me off, but keep me all to themselves instead. I think that there is an insecurity in a person that does not want their partner to dress how they actually want to dress, if that dressing style happens to be a little less modest.

It just tells something bad about the woman so it has nothing to do with insecurites.
 
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This assumes that women are always dressing to attract others. Many women dress more for themselves than to attract other men. Some women wear revealing clothing because they believe they look good in it. Any man's attraction to her while she is wearing what she feels good in is a happy side affect that she claims no responsibility for.

I prefer clothing that many would think modest, but I see and express personal power much differently than many women. I believe wearing flowing fabric that drapes the body carries a greater erotic charge than wearing revealing clothing does. I have also noticed that men tend to look at the draped figure longer than they hold their gaze on women wearing revealing clothing.

Those men are imagining what might be beneath all of that fabric, which is almost more titillating than their seeing your girlfriend in a bikini.

Do you have same standards for yourself? You don't walk around topless anywhere, do you?

I don't.

It's an old and outdated position that women dress for themselves. Why do they wear totally normal clothes at home, why don't they put on makeup at home? Most of them only do this when there are other people involved or they want to attract their partners. I don't say they are always seeking attention but in my opinion and in the opinion of most women I talked about that it is a lot about a lack of selfconscionce and
"fighting" against other women.

You're obviously not a man so you don't know how men see and think. That phantasy thing is a women's thing. We watch hardcore porn, we don't read some love literature to get some "nice thoughts".
 
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Not all men watch hardcore porn!! :)

But I agree, some women dress like that to provoke, others might be somewhat unaware of their figure... maybe!
 
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It just tells something bad about the woman so it has nothing to do with insecurites.


Are you dense? The something that is wrong with the woman is that she has one or more insecurities, hence why she does not want or did not want me to go out dressed in the clothes that I had chosen to wear for the evening. I feel like people should be able to wear what they want to wear and express themselves, if the outfits are within reason. If you have a reasonable shirt on and your partner is telling you that it is making them feel bad because it is garnering attraction from other people, then that is an insecurity. Nothing more and nothing less.
 
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I agree. I believe that people should be free to wear whatever they want to wear. If a person was attracted to you in the first place because you wore revealing clothes, and they accepted you just the way you were then they should continue to do so if they truly love you. If somebody want to control what you wear, what you eat, where you visit and who you hang out with and speak to, that person is not worth being around, and you should cut them loose.
 
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jodiann12, people are free to wear whatever they want, but some things aren't socially accepted, that doesn't mean I agree, I just love when a woman has few clothes on. :D
 
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I am a lesbian, and I have had girlfriends in the past that didn't mind me showing off my figure, and I have had girlfriends that did mind, and didn't want to show me off, but keep me all to themselves instead. I think that there is an insecurity in a person that does not want their partner to dress how they actually want to dress, if that dressing style happens to be a little less modest.

It's interesting to have the point of view of a lesbian girl :) I actually assumed this was the case with women, since my aunt is lesbian and she had been with a woman for a very long time. But they didn't seem to mind the other wore ''revealing'' clothes. They seem to be cool about everything. My aunt is now married to a totally different woman, I personally love wearing tight jeans and shirts, because that's the way I like it :p My boyfriend doesn't mind it at all!!! He thinks is sexy!
 
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Not all men watch hardcore porn!! :)

But I agree, some women dress like that to provoke, others might be somewhat unaware of their figure... maybe!

LOL, capa! It's good to know not all men watch hard core porn ;) We often assume most men do, but it's great a man stood up and attempted to destroy this stereotype. I personally hate stereotyping!
 
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